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ADVICE FOR PARENTS

As a parent or carer it is important to discuss with children the differences between healthy and unhealthy relationships to help highlight potential risks to them.

There are also a number of practical steps you can take to protect children such as:

1) Staying alert to changes in behaviour or any physical signs of abuse

2) Being aware of new, unexplained gifts or possessions

3) Monitor any episodes of staying out late or not returning home

4) Making sure you understand the risks of online grooming and make sure your child knows how to stay safe online

5) Be aware of who your child is friends with and any relationships they may have where there appears to be an imbalance in power


TALKING TO YOUR CHILD


Break the ice

Ask them what they use the internet for

Speak to them about who their friends are

Find out what games they play online

Ask

Do they understand how to keep themselves safe online?

Have they ever felt pressured to do something they don't want to?

Explain

Talk to them about what a healthy relationship is

Nude images or sexual messages are not appropriate and can be shared

Be open and honest with them

Reassure

Let them know you are there for them

Give them options of where to go for support

Further help 

Seek help from professionals who can advise you on the steps to take

Visit our help and support section to find out more or visit the NSPCC website which is full of advice on how to keep your child safe online.
ONLINE SAFETY

CSE doesn't just happen in person, in can also happen online, so it's vital you do all you can to keep your children safe while they enjoy using the internet.

1) If they are using social media networks, take a look at their security settings and make sure they are set to 'Friends only'. That includes comments, posts and photos.

2) Make sure the people they speak to online are ones both you and they know and trust in the real world


3) Explain to them that once a photo is online, it can be easily shared with others


4) Tell them to only post content and photos that they wouldn't mind sharing with their family

5) Teach your children about the importance of keeping their personal information private and not to share it online

6) Don't let your children use webcam with people they do not know from the real world, and supervise webcam use if necessary


7) Delete people that make you feel uncomfortable and report suspicious or criminal activity to 101

8) Set up parental controls on all their devices. Visit the NSPCC website for advice on how to do this.

Find out more about the dangers of sexting

Videos

The below videos, created by a variety of organisations, are listed to give parents an insight into child sexual exploitation. For further information you can also visit our help and support page.

  1. Spot the signs
    A video for parents, designed by Staffordshire County Council and partners.
  2. CSE - Emma's Story
    A video produced by West Yorkshire Police about a CSE survivor.
  3. Lucy and the boy
    An NSPCC 'Share Aware' video about the importance of staying safe online.
  4. CSE parental awareness
    A video designed to give parents awareness of child sexual exploitation